Ep. 476 "What's Your Superpower?" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Ep. 476 "What's Your Superpower?" with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Author: Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe January 22, 2026 Duration: 1:09:04
What’s Your Superpower?

In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission.

The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor.

In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference.

As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think.

Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent.

🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail)

A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy.

Ingredients



  • 3 oz fresh grapefruit juice (use less if you’re not a grapefruit girl)
  • Splash of fresh lime juice
  • 1 oz agave or honey
  • Sparkling water
  • Fresh rosemary sprig

How to Make
  1. Shake the grapefruit juice, lime juice, and agave (or honey) with ice.
  2. Strain into a wine glass over ice, top with sparkling water, and garnish with a rosemary sprig.
  3. Before adding the rosemary, gently slap it between your palms to release the oils — pretty and aromatic.



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Grab a drink and get comfortable. CockTales: Dirty Discussions is that unfiltered conversation happening in the corner of your favorite bar, hosted by friends Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. With one navigating single life and the other rooted in a long-term relationship, their perspectives clash and complement in the most honest ways. This isn't a clinical advice show; it's a raw, comedic, and deeply personal journal of what modern dating, sex, and relationships actually feel like on the ground, specifically through the lens of life in Atlanta. Each episode feels like you’re pulling up a chair to their table as they dissect their latest encounters, frustrations, and triumphs with zero censorship. The laughter is genuine, the stories are real, and the discussions go to places most are too polite to mention. You’ll find this podcast lives in the messy, human intersection of society, culture, and personal revelation, all served with a hefty side of comedy. Tune in for the kind of candid talk that makes you nod in recognition, laugh out loud, and maybe even rethink your own approach to the complicated sea of love and connection.
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