362: From skeptic to believer (ft. Naushad Godrej)

362: From skeptic to believer (ft. Naushad Godrej)

Author: Melanie Curtin May 23, 2025 Duration: 1:24:06

Have you ever doubted? Whether you've doubted yourself, the existence of a higher power, the efficacy of "alternative" healing techniques, or anything that goes against the mainstream -- this has likely come up for you at some point.

When Naushad was young, he came very close to being a pro soccer player. But physical injury after injury stymied him, and set him on a path of healing that took him from North to South America and beyond.

This is one man's personal journey of going from being a skeptic to a believer. Not a blind faith believer, but one with nuance and consideration -- and longstanding impacts on not only his his sex, dating, and relationship life, but his experience with Life itself.

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

  • “The limiting beliefs started to pick up and escalate.”
  • “I could not sit with myself because there was so much anxiety.”
  • “I had to ask for help, and that has historically been one of the most difficult things for me.”
  • “Immediately all these doors start to open, without me trying.”
  • “The messages are always there; it’s just a matter of whether we’re willing to listen.”
  • “In the seeking, what that meant for me was having the humility to say, ‘I don’t know.’”
  • “I’m in a dark hole and I don’t know what to do.”
  • “The practice becomes not working or trying, but letting go and letting it come through.”
  • “'True faith is being able to step forward when you can’t see.'”
  • “What’s the next right door?”
  • “This is the most important work you’ll ever do in your life.”

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Mentioned on this episode:

  • Naushad's site (https://resilientbeing.me/)
  • Book rec: The Alchemist
  • Book rec: The Celestine Prophecy
  • Dear Men episode 305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming and trauma

Melanie Curtin hosts Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women, a space where curiosity meets practical change. This isn't about memorizing pick-up lines or playing games; it's built on the idea that genuine personal growth is the most attractive quality a man can develop. The conversations here move beyond surface-level tips to explore the deeper dynamics of connection, drawing from insights across health, culture, and psychology. You'll hear from women who offer a candid look into what fosters real attraction and lasting partnership, providing a valuable perspective often missing from mainstream advice. Each episode tackles the honest questions and challenges men face, whether navigating early dating, deepening intimacy, or building a resilient marriage. The focus is always on actionable understanding-how to listen, communicate, and show up in ways that are both authentic and effective. Tune in for a podcast that respects your intelligence and meets you where you are, offering a blend of straightforward talk and nuanced discussion that can reshape how you approach every aspect of your life with women. It's for any man ready to move past confusion and toward more meaningful, fulfilling connections.
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