The Four Villains of Listening

The Four Villains of Listening

Author: Oscar Trimboli May 1, 2020 Duration: 58:36

Which listening villain are you? Once you know, you can't forget it.

86% of people think they are an above average listener.

So rather than thinking about how to listen better, it can be more helpful to notice what bad listening looks like.

Meet the Four Villains of Listening: Dramatic, Interrupting, Lost and Shrewd.

Each of these villains embodies particular bad habits we fall into, which completely derail our listening.

Learn about the ways the villains show up, and tips to combat them.

Once you know your listening villains, you know what's getting in your way to becoming a deep listener.

Tune in to this episode, and take the Listening Quiz at listeningquiz.com

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Most of us spend over half our working hours listening, yet almost no one has ever been taught how to do it well. The result is a cycle of frustration and missed connections, where genuine understanding feels just out of reach. Deep Listening-Impact beyond words-Oscar Trimboli moves past the simple mechanics of hearing to explore the profound space where real impact is made. Hosted by Oscar Trimboli, this series tackles the silent gaps in our conversations-the assumptions, distractions, and unspoken cues that derail collaboration and leadership. Each episode breaks down the tangible skills needed to listen beyond words, focusing on the physical, mental, and emotional layers that most overlook. You’ll hear practical techniques drawn from research and real-world scenarios, designed for leaders, managers, and anyone who needs to navigate complex workplace relationships. This isn’t about passive hearing; it’s about an active, disciplined practice that transforms meetings, feedback, and negotiations. By tuning into this podcast, you gain a framework to quiet the internal and external noise, creating the clarity that leads to better decisions and deeper human connection. Trimboli guides you through shifting from simply waiting to speak to truly understanding, turning a fundamental skill into your most powerful professional tool.
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