#057 Do You Take Things Personally?

#057 Do You Take Things Personally?

Author: Suzanne Andora Barron May 2, 2024 Duration: 3:25
When people say something negative to you, do you dwell on it? Do you find you keep replaying it in your head? If you answered yes then believe it or not, you're actually cosigning with that way of thinking. Some part of you is agreeing with what they said. Don Miguel Luis. Author of the Four Agreements says, "Don't take anything personally because what others say to us has nothing to do with us." When the speaker's words are unkind or off base, it's...

Life has a way of stretching us, often in directions we never anticipated. Finding Joy in the Hard, hosted by Suzanne Andora Barron, is a weekly space that meets you right there, in that stretch. This isn't about bypassing pain or forcing positivity; it's about the honest, often quiet work of navigating grief, personal growth, daily struggles, and those sudden turns that leave us reeling. Each episode offers a grounded conversation with your own experience. Suzanne's solo minisodes provide candid reflections intertwined with gentle nervous system awareness and simple, embodied practices-tools to help you find a steadier footing when the ground feels anything but solid. The podcast also features conversations with guests who have walked their own difficult paths, people who have discovered genuine light in dark places and, yes, found joy in the hard. It’s a resource for anyone looking to cultivate resilience not as a concept, but as a felt sense in the body and mind, exploring the intersection of mental and physical well-being through a lens of compassionate realism. You'll hear a blend of personal narrative, practical wisdom, and supportive dialogue, all aimed at making the challenging parts of being human feel a little more manageable and a lot less lonely.
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Duration: 5:45
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Duration: 4:58
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Duration: 3:12
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Duration: 5:28
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Duration: 3:19
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Duration: 2:33
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