#560 Why Chasing Goals Makes You Unhappy (And How to Fix It)

#560 Why Chasing Goals Makes You Unhappy (And How to Fix It)

Author: Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. November 7, 2025 Duration: 15:01

We've all been sold the same idea: sacrifice your happiness today for a richer, better "someday" once you finally achieve your big goals. But what if that entire mindset is a trap that guarantees you never actually learn how to live well? In this episode, we're dismantling why this chase so often fails and uncovering the practical secret to finding fulfillment and happiness right now, in the middle of the journey.

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A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

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Finding a sense of calm and genuine contentment often feels like navigating a maze without a map. Happiness Podcast, hosted by clinical psychologist Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D., offers a practical and compassionate guide through that maze. Each episode feels like a conversation with a knowledgeable friend, one who understands the weight of anxiety, the drain of fatigue, and the universal desire for a more peaceful existence. Rather than offering quick fixes, the discussions delve into the tangible, often learnable skills that contribute to a self-actualized and resilient life. The focus here is on the deliberate steps we can take, because a flourishing life isn't a matter of luck-it's built. With over ten million downloads, this weekly series has become a trusted resource for anyone looking to move beyond simply coping and toward truly thriving. You'll hear explorations of mindfulness, psychological principles, and personal stories that translate complex ideas into actionable daily practices. Tune in for thoughtful perspectives on mental well-being that fit into the real world, all grounded in Dr. Puff's extensive experience. This podcast makes the profound journey toward lasting happiness feel not only possible but accessible, one episode at a time.
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