Poorna Bell: "Women want more, not more to do!" How to put yourself first

Poorna Bell: "Women want more, not more to do!" How to put yourself first

Author: Fearne Cotton February 23, 2026 Duration: 1:04:20

What more do you want from life? What more do you want for yourself? Award-winning journalist and author Poorna Bell reckons it’s time to start really asking ourselves these questions.


In this chat with Fearne, Poorna explains why it’s important to aim for goals you set for yourself, not the ones set by society. They talk about why challenging the narrative that women become invisible as they age is so important, and why we should be turning to elders for life wisdom.


Poorna also reflects on what she wishes she’d known about marriage before her wedding, and how we can all strengthen our relationships with our parents and children.

Poorna’s book, She Wanted More, is out now.


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