Release yourself from the male gaze: How to have more orgasms!

Release yourself from the male gaze: How to have more orgasms!

Author: Fearne Cotton July 25, 2025 Duration: 46:02

It’s National Orgasm Day on July 31st, so Fearne is listening back to Happy Place conversations about female sexuality, fantasy, and – obviously – orgasms, so that we can reclaim our bodies and desires as our own...


In this episode – 


- Crystal Hefner describes what it was like living as a sexualised woman at the Playboy House


-Emily Ratajkowski unpacks how we can remove our sexuality from the male gaze


-Dita Von Teese gives her take on nudity and building confidence in your body


-Gillian Anderson chats about what she learnt from collecting essays on women’s fantasies


-Miranda July explains why she included a particularly taboo fantasy in her novel All Fours


-Florence Bark talks through how to get to know your own anatomy better, so you can properly lean into all that pleasure your body is capable of


Listen to the full episodes here – 


Crystal Hefner


Emily Ratajkowski


Dita Von Teese


Gillian Anderson


Miranda July


Florence Bark

 


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In a world that often feels loud and demanding, Happy Place offers a different kind of conversation. Here, Fearne Cotton sits down with a wide range of fascinating people-from artists and athletes to experts and everyday heroes-to explore the nuanced realities of human experience. These discussions gently peel back the layers on topics like mental resilience, physical well-being, cultural shifts, and the complexities of our relationships, moving far beyond simple soundbites. The core of this podcast lies in its authentic curiosity about how individuals navigate life's inevitable highs and lows. Rather than prescribing a single path to joy, each episode uncovers personal definitions of contentment and peace, often found in unexpected moments or hard-won perspectives. Listening feels like being part of a thoughtful, intimate dialogue where vulnerability is welcomed and stories are shared without pretense. Whether the conversation touches on overcoming loss, finding creative inspiration, or building a healthier society, Fearne guides it with empathy and a genuine desire to understand. This collection of interviews provides a quiet space for reflection, reminding us that happiness is not a constant state but a deeply personal and evolving journey. Tune in for a sincere exploration of what it means to live fully across all facets of life.
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