(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

Author: Cloud10 March 9, 2026 Duration: 46:03
🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what women actually think about dating, attraction, and communication? How To GET THE GIRL-An Ask Women Podcast cuts through the noise and gets straight to honest conversations. Hosted by Marni Kinrys, who acts as your personal wing girl, alongside banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly series dismantles the mysteries of modern connection. Instead of relying on tired pick-up lines or manipulative games, the hosts facilitate genuine dialogue. You’ll hear directly from a diverse range of voices-everyday women, celebrities, relationship therapists, and fiercely opinionated individuals-all sharing unfiltered perspectives on what truly builds confidence and fosters meaningful relationships. This isn't about secret tricks; it's about understanding. Each episode from Cloud10 delves into the real questions men have but might be hesitant to ask, covering everything from first-date jitters to deepening intimacy, all framed within the health and sexuality of human interaction. Tune in for a refreshingly straightforward take that replaces guesswork with clarity, making this podcast a unique resource for anyone looking to improve their romantic life through better insight and authentic communication.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
Podcast Episodes
Ep. 560 What Really Turns Women On [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:21
Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about at…
Ep. 559 How To Build Real Self-Esteem [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:44
This episode is a throwback to one of our most powerful conversations on self esteem and it is just as relevant today as ever. Building real self esteem is not something most people are taught how to do. It feels big ove…
Ep. 558 Why Being “Nice” Makes You Invisible to Women [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:40
Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe. But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes. In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunder…
Ep. 557 How to Spark Attraction in the First 30 Seconds [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:09
Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out. In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face…
Ep. 556 What Alpha Really Means Today [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:50
We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life.…
Ep. 555 Throwback: How To Be a Pick Up Artist with Vince Kelvin [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:34
Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable ins…
Ep. 553 No-BS Guide to Dating Women in Their 40's [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:29
Today’s throwback episode of the Ask Women Podcast brings on a single mother who pulls zero punches when it comes to dating past 40. She’s direct, she’s no-BS, and she’s not here to sugarcoat anything for your ego — she’…
Ep. 554 Throwback! The Relationship Doctor Is In (with Bob Grant) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:51
We’re taking it way back to a classic 2016 episode! “The Relationship Doctor” himself, Bob Grant, calls in to share timeless insights on attraction, connection, and what makes relationships actually work. Bob’s a renowne…
Ep. 553 The Instincts That Make Women Want You (and Repel Them Too) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:40
This week, we’re going primal 🧠🔥 Author and evolutionary psychology expert Tim Ash joins us to talk about his new book Primal Dating, a brutally honest guide to understanding the instincts that secretly drive attraction,…
Ep. 552 Getting Her Out of Her Head and Into Her Body [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:59
Most men think women already know how to access that deeply sensual, turned-on version of themselves, but the truth is, a lot of women have never actually been guided into their own bodies before. They’re in their heads,…