(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

(Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

Author: Cloud10 March 9, 2026 Duration: 46:03
🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what women actually think about dating, attraction, and communication? How To GET THE GIRL-An Ask Women Podcast cuts through the noise and gets straight to honest conversations. Hosted by Marni Kinrys, who acts as your personal wing girl, alongside banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly series dismantles the mysteries of modern connection. Instead of relying on tired pick-up lines or manipulative games, the hosts facilitate genuine dialogue. You’ll hear directly from a diverse range of voices-everyday women, celebrities, relationship therapists, and fiercely opinionated individuals-all sharing unfiltered perspectives on what truly builds confidence and fosters meaningful relationships. This isn't about secret tricks; it's about understanding. Each episode from Cloud10 delves into the real questions men have but might be hesitant to ask, covering everything from first-date jitters to deepening intimacy, all framed within the health and sexuality of human interaction. Tune in for a refreshingly straightforward take that replaces guesswork with clarity, making this podcast a unique resource for anyone looking to improve their romantic life through better insight and authentic communication.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
Podcast Episodes
Ep. 542 The Pursuit Playbook and Decoding Her Signals [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00:08
How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether? In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit.…
Ep. 540 Online Dating Mistakes Every Man Makes (and How to Fix Them) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00:29
This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear. While Erin’s show focus…
Ep. 539 How to Be Vulnerable Without Looking Weak (Throwback Ep!) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:12
This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some). In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach,…
Ep. 538 How to Bounce Back from a Bad 1st Impression [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:26
In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and t…
Ep. 536 Emotional Intelligence: A Trait Women CRAVE [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:50
If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you. We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack th…
Ep. 535 Sexual Shame No More! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:00
In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame.…
Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:53
🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀 This week, we’re diving into one of the most…
Ep. 533 How to Ask for What You Want AND Actually Get It [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:46
It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want. This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create…