Who Are You When No One’s Watching? Letting Go of Performance Mode

Who Are You When No One’s Watching? Letting Go of Performance Mode

Author: Jojo Cottle October 22, 2025 Duration: 21:22
Are you performing your life instead of living it? This week, Jojo breaks down the deep and subtle ways we abandon our real selves in favor of the polished, perfect version we think the world wants. Inspired by Blake Shelton’s “Who Are You When I’m Not Looking,” this episode challenges you to ask: Who am I when no one’s watching? And am I okay being that person when the whole world is? Through the Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual (MESy) lens, Jojo unpacks: The trap of external validation and ...

Jojo Cottle hosts inside OUT: Navigating the Mental, Emotional & Spiritual with Jojo, a space where personal growth is explored from the inside out. This podcast operates from the belief that lasting change happens when we address our mental patterns, emotional landscapes, and spiritual connection in tandem. Each conversation is designed to feel like a practical guide, moving beyond abstract ideas to offer grounded tools and actionable insights you can use in daily life. Whether discussing a mindset shift that reframes challenges or exploring how physical fitness intertwines with emotional resilience, Jojo approaches topics with a relatable and integrative perspective. The discussions naturally weave through categories like self-improvement, health, and spirituality, reflecting a holistic view of well-being. You'll hear explorations on aligning actions with core values, managing the inner critic, and cultivating a deeper sense of purpose. The aim is to provide content that feels both supportive and stimulating, encouraging you to examine your own journey through the lens of M.E.S.-Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual growth. For anyone feeling the pull to live more intentionally and authentically, this podcast serves as a thoughtful companion on that path, emphasizing that transformation is a nuanced and ongoing process. Tune in for episodes that blend reflective questions with tangible strategies for creating a life that feels genuinely yours.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 72

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Duration: 20:33
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Duration: 1:07:28
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Duration: 55:18
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