189: Hot Sex Takes: A Candid Chat with a Sex Therapist

189: Hot Sex Takes: A Candid Chat with a Sex Therapist

Author: That Sounds Fun Network June 24, 2024 Duration: 1:03:35
Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly! 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared” 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities? 22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually” 25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.” 29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that? 34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc) 38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually? 42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life? 45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences? Links from today’s episode: My Counsellor Online My Counsellor Online YouTube Josh Spurlock.com ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
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284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:13
Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the ope…
281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:23
Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been s…
280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:48
Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpfu…
278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:02
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277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:35
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276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:27
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275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:58
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