189: Hot Sex Takes: A Candid Chat with a Sex Therapist

189: Hot Sex Takes: A Candid Chat with a Sex Therapist

Author: That Sounds Fun Network June 24, 2024 Duration: 1:03:35
Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly! 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared” 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities? 22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually” 25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.” 29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that? 34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc) 38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually? 42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life? 45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences? Links from today’s episode: My Counsellor Online My Counsellor Online YouTube Josh Spurlock.com ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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244: Couples Who Play Together, Lay Together [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:44
What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriag…
243: Car Sex: Road Head, Steamy Windows, & Our Research [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:57
Is car sex off-limits for Christian couples? In this fun and practical episode, the KS team unpacks the legality, logistics, and creative possibilities of taking intimacy into the backseat. Whether you've got a sedan or…
242: Help! I'm a Low Libido Husband! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:34
In this episode, the KS team is talking to the husbands who have a naturally lower sex drive, and reminding you that you’re not broken or less of a man. They unpack what healthy intimacy can look like when desire is diff…
241: Q&A: Titty Tuesday, Pool Sex, & Losing Attraction [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:08
We asked, you delivered! This Q&A episode is packed with your honest, hilarious, and heartfelt questions! From postpartum libido surprises and navigating temptation at work, to “Titty Pic Tuesday,” pool sex, and more, we…
240: How To Make Sex A Priority [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:55
Is intimacy falling to the bottom of your to-do list? In this episode, we’re diving into why connection in the bedroom actually matters- and how to make it happen (even when life is bonkers). From flirty fun to schedulin…
239: Can Music Make Sex Better? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:33
Huge thank you to Dwell who sponsored today’s episode! Click here to get Dwell for 25% off! Can music really enhance your sex life? Do Christians listen to music while having sex?? Whether you're team silence, slow jams,…
238: Patron’s Choice! All About Aphrodisiacs [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:25
Special shout out to our lovely patron's for choosing this weeks episode topic! Become a patron today! Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s my…
237: Talking About Sex With Friends [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:05
Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can brin…
236: What’s NOT Allowed In The Bedroom [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:48
Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passi…
235: Navigating Sexual Rejection [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:15
Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers th…