196: Q&A! No Libido, Writing Erotica, & Taking Charge

196: Q&A! No Libido, Writing Erotica, & Taking Charge

Author: That Sounds Fun Network August 12, 2024 Duration: 36:07
Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram! QUESTION TIME STAMPS: 4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?” 7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?” 9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?” 16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?”  17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?” 19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?” 23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.” 24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?” 27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.” 29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.” 31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?” 32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there” Links from today’s episode: Vaginismus Episode @painfree.intimacy Let’s Get Checked: KINGDOM for 25% off Christian Counselling $25 off your first month with our link! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire The Penis Book KS Prayer Bundle Better Sex Through Mindfulness Starting Life Together Bundle Ultimate Wedding Night Guide Awaken Love ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:13
Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the ope…
281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:23
Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been s…
280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:48
Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpfu…
278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:02
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277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:35
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276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:27
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275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:58
We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares…