219: Q&A: Having Sex in Public, How Often to Have Sex, Initiating with Confidence, Getting Spark Back Postpartum and more

219: Q&A: Having Sex in Public, How Often to Have Sex, Initiating with Confidence, Getting Spark Back Postpartum and more

Author: That Sounds Fun Network January 20, 2025 Duration: 31:43
Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it! Links from today’s episode: Interview with Josh Spurlock My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Better Help Counseling Engagement Guide Wedding Night Guide Newlywed Guide Starting Life Together Bundle Awaken Love Book 180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A! Question Time Stamps: 2:20- What are your thoughts on “adult-only” resorts? 3:55- How often should you have sex in marriage? 5:25- How to keep the spark alive when engaged and long distance? 6:18- A good first episode to introduce my spouse to the podcast? 7:50- How to get over my nerves initiating with my spouse? 9:50- What advice would you give newlyweds 6 months into marriage? 13:00- How to serve my husband when my desire is low? 18:00- About to get married and don’t know much about sex- any tips? 21:00- Is it okay to want to have sex where the risk of getting caught is very high? (In public)  22:58-  How to reignite the intimate life post-baby? 26:12- How much time do you spend on KS each week? ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Kingdom Sexuality
Podcast Episodes
284: "Help! Our Sex Drives Are Different!" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:13
Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the ope…
281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:23
Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been s…
280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:48
Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpfu…
278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:02
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277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:35
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276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:27
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275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:58
We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares…