232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause

232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause

Author: That Sounds Fun Network April 21, 2025 Duration: 55:09
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show! This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement. 2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines? 4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit? 5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy? 8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard? 12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer? 14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low? 17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life 19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try 24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive? 29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm? 32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it? 34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido? 37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do? 38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why? 41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰 Watch the episode on YouTube!!  Links from today’s episode: DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduled Sex episode (ep. 139) Ah Yes! Lubricants: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off BeLoved Fertility: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package Passionista book Figuring Out What I Like Guide ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
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224: Getting Out Of A Slump [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

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