232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause

232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause

Author: That Sounds Fun Network April 21, 2025 Duration: 55:09
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show! This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement. 2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines? 4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit? 5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy? 8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard? 12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer? 14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low? 17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life 19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try 24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive? 29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm? 32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it? 34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido? 37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do? 38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why? 41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰 Watch the episode on YouTube!!  Links from today’s episode: DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduled Sex episode (ep. 139) Ah Yes! Lubricants: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off BeLoved Fertility: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package Passionista book Figuring Out What I Like Guide ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alana, Kyle, and Tiera are three friends navigating the often unspoken terrain of sex and intimacy within Christian marriage. Their conversations form the heart of Kingdom Sexuality, a podcast from the That Sounds Fun Network that moves beyond simplistic advice into honest, practical dialogue. They address the questions many couples wrestle with but feel unequipped to ask in typical church settings-from sustaining passion over decades to understanding how faith intersects with physical desire and specific acts of intimacy. This isn't about presenting a rigid rulebook, but about exploring a journey of transformation together. Through candid discussions and interviews, they create a space where spiritual life and married sexuality are seen as beautifully connected. Each episode aims to replace confusion with clarity and shame with freedom, offering companionship for couples who believe their sex life can be both holy and deeply fulfilling. Tune in for relatable stories, theological insights, and tangible steps toward a more connected marriage, all framed within a perspective of faith and grace.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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223: Learning To Be A Selfless Lover [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

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222: God, Sex, & How They Mesh [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:09
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221: Fundamentals Of Healthy Sexuality [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:03
Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex…
TRAILER: The Sex Fundamentals [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 0:39
It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover thing…
220: The Why Behind This [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:13
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218: Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:53
Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and his wife Samantha chat about the sex fast they did a few years ago. Was it helpful? Would they do it again? Listen now! Links from today’s episode: Kyle’s Sextimony (Epi…
217: Condoms: Rubber Up Then Rub Her Up [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 27:30
To wrap or not to wrap- that is the question! Tune into this funny, informative, and light-hearted episode where Tiera educates Alana and Kyle on the ins and outs of condom use! Links from today’s episode: Tiera’s Fertil…
216: New Year New Sexual Resolutions [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:43
We often create individual goals for ourselves but do we make marriage/intimacy goals as a couple? Tune in to hear some practical goals you can implement this new year! Links from today’s episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom…
215: Christmas Q&A: Sex In Childhood Bed, Sexy Gift Ideas, & More! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:46
Tune in as we tackle Christmas/intimacy/marriage questions that YOU sent in! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas, from the KS team! Question Time Stamps: 2:22 I want to have sex in my childhood bedroom whi…