Mary’s Journey: The Costs of Caring for a Loved One in Prison

Mary’s Journey: The Costs of Caring for a Loved One in Prison

Author: My Cultura, Futuro and iHeartPodcasts January 4, 2026 Duration: 49:56

One in four women in the United States has a family member in prison — and those carrying the resulting financial and emotional burden are disproportionately women of color. Mary Estrada is one of them. She’s been taking care of her husband, Robert, for 40 years, as he’s been in and out of prison throughout his adult life. Most Sundays, Mary wakes up at 3 a.m. and drives 135 miles each way from Pomona, California, to San Diego to meet her incarcerated husband. In this episode, we accompany Mary on one of her Sunday visits, and we learn about the true costs of supporting a loved one in prison.

This story first aired in 2023.

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