Healing Trauma and Embracing Sexual Pleasure

Healing Trauma and Embracing Sexual Pleasure

Author: Dr. Diane Mueller May 2, 2024 Duration: 16:51
As someone who's been through sexual assault, my journey has been both arduous and enlightening, revealing how deeply shame can really affect our libido. I'm Diane, and I want to talk openly about how shame, fueled by societal norms and personal trauma, can mess with how we see ourselves sexually. Shame gets deep into us, from society's expectations to our private struggles behind closed doors. I'll dive into how shame can harm our sexual happiness and why it's crucial to face these deep-seated beliefs for healing and a better sex life. Let's chat about this important topic together.

In the quiet space between public image and private reality, many long-term relationships face a subtle, often unspoken shift. Libido Lounge is a conversation about that specific gap, hosted by Board Certified Sexologist Dr. Diane Mueller. This isn't about crisis or scandal, but the gradual fading of a vital connection that leaves couples wondering how they got here. Dr. Mueller moves beyond superficial advice to explore the complex interplay of biology, culture, daily stress, and personal history that shapes our intimate lives. You'll hear frank discussions that normalize common struggles, dissect societal myths, and provide actionable insights grounded in both science and clinical experience. The podcast considers the whole person-how fitness and health intersect with emotional bonds, and how societal pressures quietly influence our most private moments. Each episode is designed to offer clarity and practical pathways forward, whether the topic is rekindling desire, navigating mismatched drives, or simply understanding the mechanics of human sexuality within a committed partnership. For anyone feeling that something essential has quietly disappeared behind a still-fine facade, Libido Lounge provides a thoughtful, expert-guided space for exploration and understanding.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 125

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The Influence of Emotional Safety on Libido [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 17:52
Emotional safety is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship. Without it, there may be feelings of isolation, mistrust, and resentment. When you feel safe with your partner, you trust them wholly and feel naturally reassu…
Hormone Therapies You Should Know [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:02
Did you know that hormones control everything? From blood sugar to blood pressure, growth and fertility, sex drive, metabolism, and even sleep – hormones have a role to play in all of these. However, when hormones become…
The Libido Landscape: What do Statistics Say? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:50
Did you know that the highest percentage of couples experimenting with anal play starts in your 40s? How about the stark drop from 72% (below the age of 60) to 57% (after the age of 60) when it comes to having an active…
Introducing Sex Toys into Your Partnered Relationship [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:37
Not climaxing as much as your partner? Introducing sex toys into your relationship might be something to consider. However, we know that talking about it might feel a bit awkward – who wants their partner to think they’r…
Taking Hormones for Menopausal Symptoms and Low Libido [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:18
In the [first episode of Libido Lounge](https://mylibidodoc.com/ep-1-stop-the-self-blame-top-ten-myths-about-female-sexuality/), we discussed the Top 9 myths of female sexuality and kept the 10th a secret. Today, join us…
The Delicious Tension of Sexual Polarity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:20
Struggling with monotonous, dull sex? Perhaps all your sex life needs is a hot sprinkle of polarity play. ☯ Polarity play is the concept of magnetic attraction between two opposing forces. Yin and yang, giving and receiv…
How to Release Tension from Your Pelvic Floor with Alexandra Durigan [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:15
In today’s episode, we are sharing expert tips on how to deal with sexual dysfunction caused by tension and trauma in your pelvic floor. We’re joined by Alexandra Durigan, Founder of Origin Pelvic Care, an expert in sexu…
Can Thyroid Problems Cause Low Libido? With Dr. Amie Hornaman [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:05
Can thyroid problems cause sexual dysfunction? Can you blame your weight on your thyroid? In this episode, we’ll answer all these questions (and more) as we host Dr. Amie Hornaman, a.k.a. the Thyroid Fixer. She will delv…