187. When Saying 'Nope' Feels Bad

187. When Saying 'Nope' Feels Bad

Author: Lindsay Dotzlaf May 28, 2024 Duration: 25:18

It may feel great to you to opt out of doing certain things. For me, this list includes cold plunges and scheduling early morning meetings. However, what do you do when you say you don't want to do something, but you want the result it could create for you? This is the piece most people aren't willing to dig into, and I'm showing you how to start today.

 

Discover what to do when you want a particular result but experience resistance to the activity, method, or strategy. Learn what happens when you're unwilling to explore your reasons, why we tend to stay steadfast in our unwillingness, and one question to help you start the exploration process.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/187


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