#44 Why Going Home Feels Like Going Backwards – And How to Change That

#44 Why Going Home Feels Like Going Backwards – And How to Change That

Author: Hearts Wide Open March 11, 2025 Duration: 11:19

Going home as an adult can feel like stepping back in time. No matter how much we’ve grown, family dynamics and personal growth often clash, making us feel like a younger, outdated version of ourselves. In this episode, I share my experience of visiting home while staying in a BnB instead of my childhood home—and how it completely changed my relationship with myself and my family.Why does going home as an adult sometimes feel like going backwards? How do family dynamics and personal growth shape our identity? And most importantly, how can we set boundaries with family while still strengthening our connection with them?Tune in as we unpack why this happens, how I finally broke the cycle, and what you can do to maintain your sense of self on your next visit home. If you’ve ever struggled with balancing personal growth and family expectations, this episode is for you.

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