#766 Navigating Sex After An Assault - Katie Simon

#766 Navigating Sex After An Assault - Katie Simon

Author: Paul Gilmartin September 19, 2025 Duration: 1:42:28
Katie Simon is a journalist and sexual assault survivor. They talk about the impact that sexual assault can have on your sex life and share resources for how to manage and discuss this complex situation. For more info, look for their new book, Tell Me What You Like: An Honest Discussion of Sex and Intimacy After Sexual Assault. This episode is sponsored by NOCD.  If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/mentalpod Buy Katie Simon’s book here: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/9780806542782/tell-me-what-you-like/ Katie’s List of Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline https://www.thehotline.org/ Dial 1-800-799-HOPE Women’s Law: https://www.womenslaw.org/ Veterans Affairs: https://www.ptsd.va.gov/ National Sexual Violence Resource Center https://www.nsvrc.org/ Planned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/ The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ 1in6: https://1in6.org/ Kinsey Institute: https://kinseyinstitute.org/ OMGYES: https://www.omgyes.com/ Google “sexual assault help + [name of nearest city]” for more local options If you’re interested in seeing or buying the furniture that Paul designs and makes follow his IG @ShapedFurniture or visit the website www.shapedfurniture.com    WAYS TO HELP THE MIHH PODCAST Subscribe via Apple Podcasts (or whatever player you use). It costs nothing. It’s extremely helpful to have your subscription set to download all episodes automatically. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mental-illness-happy-hour/id427377900?mt=2 Spread the word via social media.  It costs nothing. Our website is www.mentalpod.com our FB is www.Facebook.com/mentalpod and our Twitter and Instagram are both @Mentalpod  Become a much-needed Patreon monthly-donor (with occasional rewards) for as little as $1/month at www.Patreon.com/mentalpod    Become a one-time or monthly donor via PayPal at https://mentalpod.com/donate You can also donate via Zelle (make payment to mentalpod@gmail.com)  To donate via Venmo make payment to @Mentalpod  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hosted by comedian Paul Gilmartin, Mental Illness Happy Hour has become a unique and essential space for conversations many shy away from. This isn't a clinical program, but rather a series of raw, honest dialogues where Gilmartin and his guests share their personal experiences with mental health struggles, addiction, fear, and the lasting impacts of childhood trauma. The atmosphere is intentionally crafted to be a perversely safe place, a description noted by The New York Times, where vulnerability is met with compassion rather than judgment. Listeners will find a podcast that deliberately explores the grey areas of human experience, with Slate Magazine highlighting Gilmartin's conscious effort to share stories that aren't simply black and white. It’s this approach that has led publications like Psychology Today to call it "remarkable" and Esquire to deem it a vital gem addressing a deep need. Tuning in, you'll hear a blend of personal narrative, dark humor, and profound connection that has earned the show a global audience and recognition as a top health podcast. Each episode serves as a reminder that you're not alone in your struggles, creating a sense of community through shared, often unvarnished truth.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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#786 Shame, BiPolar & Codependency - Lane Falcon [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:55:52
Lane Falcon is a podcast listener who discusses one of her Mental Illness Happy Hour survey responses and opens up about her struggles with bipolar disorder, trauma, and codependency. More about Lane www.LaneFalcon.com T…
#785 - Owning Our Issues In Relationships - Zach Brittle [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:28:49
Marriage Therapist Zach Brittle talks with Paul about things that can kill marriages, his own struggles with coping with his feelings -especially anger- and how to truly work as a team in relationships. More about Zach:…
#784 Family Secrets & Letting Go - Sophia Laurenzi [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:15:35
Writer/Journalist Sophia Laurenzi @Sophia_Laurenzi shares about the family secrets that were kept from her for years, her father coming out of the closet and his battles with mental health, her struggles with codependenc…
#783 Reconciling Good Memories Of Abusers - Jennifer Westcott #4 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:37:52
Jennifer Westcott is a therapist and regular guest on the pod. This week, she and Paul discuss the complexity of reconciling good memories with abusive memories and the pain of missing family members after choosing to go…
#782 Loss, Empathy & Resilience - Kyle Kittleson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:10:35
Kyle Kittleson is a YouTube host and a mental health and animal advocate. He shares his experience with losing his mother as a child, how it affects his adult relationships, and the importance of building empathy and res…
#781 Losing A Parent - Sarah Haufrect Returns [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:37:07
Sarah Haufrect is a returning guest and long-time listener who shares her experience with loss, grief, and the parent-child relationship. She opens up about processing her mother’s borderline personality disorder (BPD) a…
#780 Best Of - Janet Varney (Our Very 1st Ep) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:35
The very first MIHH ep ever which originally aired in March of 2011.. Paul interviews his Dinner and a Movie co-host Janet Varney (@theJVClub) about her battles with anxiety, depression food and panic attacks. Listen as…
#779 Depression & Anxiety - Best Of - Jamie Denbo [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:30:35
This ep was one of our first ever, recorded in 2011. Comedic actress / improvisor / writer / podcaster Jamie Denbo aka @JamieDenbo talks about being an only child, born to Jewish parents whose lives, culture and ancestor…
#778 Surviving The Deepest Depths - Laura Moran [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:46:01
Laura Moran is a television writer. She talks about a lifelong battle with depression, self-harm and the suicide attempt that helped her realize she needed help resulting in a stay in a psychiatric facility which helped…
#777 I.C.E. & The Latino Community - Jesse Perez Returns [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:20:19
Jesse Perez is a friend of Paul’s, a cancer survivor, a podcaster, and a Latino man navigating life under the current administration. Look for his podcast, Equanimity, which focuses on this experience. Check out an episo…