How Codependency Shapes Your Financial Decisions with Michelle Farris, LMFT

How Codependency Shapes Your Financial Decisions with Michelle Farris, LMFT

Author: Leisa Peterson February 26, 2026 Duration: 31:25

Money and relationships are deeply intertwined — and yet we rarely talk about how our emotional patterns drive our financial decisions. In this eye-opening conversation, Leisa sits down with psychotherapist Michelle Farris to explore the surprising connection between codependency and money. Michelle breaks down how people-pleasing, over-giving, and a lack of boundaries don't just affect our relationships — they quietly drain our finances too.

You'll learn how codependent patterns that start in childhood show up as over-lending, paying for others to feel liked, under-earning, and giving away resources at your own expense. More importantly, Michelle offers practical, compassionate baby steps for reclaiming your financial power — without losing your generous heart.

Whether you've been the person who always picks up the check, lent money that never came back, or found yourself giving more than you can afford, this episode will help you see your patterns clearly and start putting yourself back in the equation.

In this episode:

  • What codependency actually is (and why it's more common than we think)
  • How over-giving with money is often about seeking love and validation
  • What financial boundaries look like in real life
  • Why receiving is a skill — and how to practice it
  • The connection between self-trust and financial decisions
  • How to take baby steps toward healthier money habits in relationships

To Learn more about Michelle Farris LMFT:

🎥 YouTube: Relationships That Work with Michelle Farris

🌐 Website & Free Codependency Guide: counselingrecovery.com


Leisa Peterson has spent years as a business coach and financial expert, and she’s noticed something profound: the journey to wealth is often blocked not by a lack of opportunity, but by our own internal landscapes. That’s the space where Mindful Millionaire with Leisa Peterson lives. This isn't a typical finance podcast focused solely on spreadsheets and market trends. Instead, Leisa guides conversations that sit at the unique intersection of practical money wisdom and deep personal growth. You’ll hear from a variety of voices-entrepreneurs, thought leaders, and everyday people-who share stories about aligning their financial ambitions with their core values and mental well-being. Episodes delve into how our beliefs about money are formed, how to lead with vision without burning out, and how cultivating mindfulness can directly impact our financial decisions and business success. It’s about building a prosperous life that feels authentic and sustainable, where self-mastery informs every dollar earned and invested. Tune in for a blend of actionable advice and heart-centered commentary designed to transform your relationship with abundance from the inside out.
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