Quick Spoon: The holiday that changed nothing

Quick Spoon: The holiday that changed nothing

Author: Ross McIntosh July 24, 2026 Duration: 1:04

Have you ever unpacked your suitcase and, within three days, felt as though you'd never been away?

Recovery isn't simply about taking time away from work. What we do with that time matters too.

In this People Soup Quick Spoon, Ross invites you to think about what you might bring home from your holiday—other than souvenirs and dirty washing.

Perhaps it's reading for ten minutes.

Walking after dinner.

Leaving your phone in another room.

Here's something to try

Before your holiday ends, ask yourself:

What's one thing I'd like to bring back with me other than souvenirs?

Don't just bring home memories.

Bring home one new way of living.

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Quick Spoon: Why did I react like that? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:13
In this Quick Spoon, Ross explores the first skill in the McIntosh Leadership Framework: Pause.Inspired by a powerful reflection from Gabriella Braun, this episode looks at those moments when our reactions feel immediate…
Quick Spoon: That difficult person at work [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:25
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Why work feels so personal with Gabriella Braun [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:04
In this episode of People Soup, Ross is joined by consultant, psychoanalytic thinker, and author Gabriella Braun for a deeply human conversation about why work can feel so personal.Drawing on her remarkable book All That…
Quick Spoon: Speak to three people [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:29
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Quick Spoon: If I was at my absolute best... [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:25
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Quick Spoon: Pain is part of being human [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:34
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Quick Spoon: Get off autopilot [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:33
Ever noticed how pressure can shrink your options?A difficult conversation.An awkward email.A deadline.A piece of feedback you weren’t expecting.And suddenly… you’re reacting before you’ve even realised it.In this Quick…
Quick Spoon: Locked out of the controls [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:30
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Quick Spoon: When the threat system takes over [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:35
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Quick Spoon: We don't choose who we become [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:18
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