Truly Disappearing: Powering Our Own Perpetual Surveillance?

Truly Disappearing: Powering Our Own Perpetual Surveillance?

Author: Gareth King December 10, 2025 Duration: 44:56

The internet has given us unprecedented connection, but thanks to relentless data retention and constant tracking of our every digital move, is it now virtually impossible to shed our old identity and start a new life undetected?

To help us understand what we’re up against, we’re joined by Lachlan Jarvis, a private investigator, digital forensics expert, and Director of Lyonswood Investigations.

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In this episode, Lachlan joins us to look at the implications of the internet on personal identity and privacy. We explore how the digital landscape has evolved, the nature of digital footprints, and the challenges of disappearing in a connected world.

We also look at the right to be forgotten, the feasibility of reinventing oneself, and the importance of digital hygiene in protecting personal information.

00:00 The Cost of Digital Identity

03:12 The Evolution of Private Investigation

06:07 Understanding Digital Footprints

09:03 Active vs Passive Digital Footprints

12:13 The Right to be Forgotten

14:59 The Challenges of Disappearing

17:50 The Role of AI in Investigation

20:54 The Feasibility of Reinventing Oneself

24:09 Digital Hygiene and Security

27:08 Identity Theft and Its Consequences

30:00 The Future of Digital Privacy


It’s a question that nags at anyone who’s ever felt a pang of nostalgia or a wave of digital fatigue: are we better or worse off because of our constant connection? Hosted by Gareth King, Ruined By The Internet? digs into that uneasy feeling, moving beyond simple headlines to explore how our online world actively moulds society, culture, and the texture of daily life. This isn’t about reviewing apps or gadgets; it’s about treating the digital realm as the pervasive environment it has become. Each episode features thoughtful conversations with leading thinkers and researchers from around the world, dissecting the real evidence behind our shared anxieties and hopes. You’ll hear nuanced discussions that ask whether the casualties we often blame on technology are inevitable, or if we’re simply misdiagnosing deeper societal shifts. This podcast provides a space for considered reflection, offering listeners a clearer lens through which to view their own place in a world that is, for better or worse, thoroughly wired.
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