Pain Is Inevitable. Suffering Is Not: The Skill That Changes Everything

Pain Is Inevitable. Suffering Is Not: The Skill That Changes Everything

Author: Armando Dominguez PhD Health Psychology, Educator, Martial Artist, Researcher May 31, 2026 Duration: 44:39
Ep 150. Suffering is often described as an unavoidable part of the human experience. Pain, loss, disappointment, uncertainty, and adversity are realities that every person encounters throughout life. Yet while pain may be inevitable, suffering is often shaped by how we relate to our experiences. The distinction is important. Pain is a natural response to injury, loss, challenge, and hardship. Suffering, however, is often amplified by the stories we tell ourselves, the fears we project into th...

Ever feel like your brain's ancient wiring is at odds with the demands of modern life? That's the core territory explored in Running Man Self Regulation Skills Project. Hosted by Armando Dominguez, who brings a unique perspective as a PhD in Health Psychology, an educator, a martial artist, and a researcher, this podcast digs into the primal roots of our reactions. It’s about understanding how stress, anxiety, and even physical pain directly hijack our capacity to think clearly and make good decisions, often leading to behavior we might later regret. Each episode unpacks the survival programming we all carry-our inner paleo-caveperson-and how it manifests in today's world. You’ll hear practical discussions that bridge science and daily experience, focusing on why we freeze, lash out, or struggle to choose wisely under pressure. This isn't just theory; it's about gaining tangible insights for recognizing these patterns and developing stronger self-regulation skills. For anyone interested in the intersection of mental resilience, physical fitness, and social behavior, this podcast offers a thoughtful, grounded conversation. Tune in to reframe your understanding of your own instincts and learn to navigate tension with more awareness and control.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 50

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Duration: 33:10
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The 3 Steps That Turn Stress Into Strength [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:24
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Duration: 31:00
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Duration: 29:41
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Duration: 35:42
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