Christians Are Getting THIS Wrong About Giving (and why it's hurting us more than we realize)

Christians Are Getting THIS Wrong About Giving (and why it's hurting us more than we realize)

Author: Bob Lotich, Linda Lotich December 27, 2025 Duration: 30:33
Jesus said, "Don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing."
 
But does that really mean Christians should never talk about giving?
 
In this episode, Bob and Linda tackle one of the most misunderstood passages in the Bible—and why misreading it has quietly hurt generosity, discipleship, and spiritual growth in the church.
 
Sparked by a viral clip referencing Matthew 6, they walk through what Jesus was actually addressing (motive, not visibility), why public generosity shows up all over Scripture, and how sharing testimonies—when done with the right heart—can inspire radical obedience in others.
This isn't about bragging.
 
It's about obedience, clarity, and letting God get the glory.
 
 
 
What You'll Learn in This Episode
  • Why Matthew 6 is about motive, not secrecy
  • How applying "give in secret" consistently would silence prayer and testimony too
  • The difference between generosity that inspires vs generosity that performs
  • Why public generosity is everywhere in Scripture (Barnabas, the Macedonian church, Zacchaeus, the widow's mite, Mary anointing Jesus)
  • How generosity becomes contagious when stories are shared
  • Practical ways to check your heart before sharing a testimony
  • When God says "share it" — and when He says "keep it quiet"
 
Key Scriptures Mentioned (NLT)
  • Matthew 6:1–4 — Giving with the right motive
  • Acts 4–5 — Barnabas vs. Ananias & Sapphira
  • Luke 19:8–9 — Zacchaeus' public repentance and generosity
  • 2 Corinthians 8–9 — The Macedonian church & contagious generosity
 
A Key Takeaway
God isn't after secrecy for secrecy's sake.
He's after hearts that give for His glory, not human applause.
Some generosity should be quiet.
Some testimonies are meant to be shared.
The wisdom is knowing the difference—and having the courage to obey either way.
 
 
Action Item for This Week
Ask God one simple question in prayer:
"Is there a generosity story You want me to share—or one You want me to keep private?"
Then obey, even if it feels uncomfortable.
 
 
Generosity isn't about being seen—it's about letting God be seen.
👉👉 If this episode helped clarify something you've wrestled with, share it with a friend who needs this conversation.
 
 
Disclaimer:
This content is for educational and spiritual encouragement only and is not individualized financial advice. Always pray and seek wise counsel as you apply biblical principles to your own life.
 

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