Even after spiritual abuse, THIS is why I still tithe

Even after spiritual abuse, THIS is why I still tithe

Author: Bob Lotich, Linda Lotich January 16, 2026 Duration: 41:55
Spiritual abuse around money almost made us stop giving altogether.
 
We've seen manipulation from the pulpit.
We've witnessed leaders mishandle funds.
We've felt the tension between honoring God and distrusting institutions.
 
And yet… we still tithe.
 
In this episode, Bob and Linda have an honest, nuanced conversation about why they chose not to let other people's failures steal something God wanted to use for their freedom.
This is not a legalistic defense of tithing.
 
It's a heart-level conversation about obedience, trust, healing, and separating God's command from human hypocrisy.
 
If you've ever thought:
  • "I don't trust where the money goes"
  • "I've seen too much abuse"
  • "Is tithing even for today?"
  • "I want to honor God, but I'm conflicted"
This episode is for you.
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Key Scriptures (NLT)
  • Proverbs 3:9–10 — Honor the Lord with your wealth
  • Deuteronomy 8:18 — God gives the power to create wealth
  • Matthew 6:33 — Seek first the Kingdom
  • Luke 6:38 — Give, and it will be given to you
  • 2 Corinthians 9 — Sowing and reaping with the right heart
  • Matthew 23:23 — Jesus affirms tithing without legalism
 
Action Item for This Week
Take 10 quiet minutes and pray this simple prayer:
"God, what does generosity look like for me right now?"
Write down what comes to mind.
Don't rush it. Don't rationalize it.
Just ask… and listen.
 
Don't let someone else's disobedience steal your opportunity to trust God.
👉👉If this episode helped you, share it with someone who's wrestling with giving—or spiritual hurt around money.
 
Gentle Disclaimer
This episode is for biblical and educational purposes only and is not personalized financial advice. Pray, seek wise counsel, and follow the Holy Spirit's leading in your own giving decisions.
 

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