How Often Do Men Really Think About Sex?

Many wives have heard that men think about sex nearly all the time. But do they? We tackle this important question, because it influences what we think about men, sexuality, and challenges in our marriage.

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From the Bible

Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. Romans 8:5

You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:22–24

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Philippians 4:8

Resources

• Sexual Morality by C.S. Lewis Doodle (BBC Talk 14) - reading and visual representation of Mere Christianity chapter that talks about sexual starvation or gluttony
• Study Debunks Stereotype That Men Think About Sex All Day Long
• Should You Be Reading My Blog? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Episode 104: How Often Should You Have Sex?
• How Often Do Men Think About The Roman Empire? A Lot, According To New TikTok Trend
• The Higher Desire Wife by J. Parker
• Masterclass: Sexual Desire Differences

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