Overcoming Sexual Abuse, with Jenn Schmidt

Overcoming Sexual Abuse, with Jenn Schmidt

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor April 16, 2025 Duration: 45:18

Jenn Schmidt from Intimate Covenant joins us to talk about overcoming sexual abuse and building a healthy, intimate sex life with your husband.

NOTE: J totally got the episode number wrong! Not the first time she's been wrong. ~wink~

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From the Bible

Praise the Lord, my soul,
    and forget not all his benefits—
who forgives all your sins
    and heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the pit
    and crowns you with love and compassion,
who satisfies your desires with good things
    so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.
The Lord works righteousness
    and justice for all the oppressed.
Psalm 103:2-6

Now there is in Jerusalem near the Sheep Gate a pool, which in Aramaic is called Bethesda and which is surrounded by five covered colonnades. Here a great number of disabled people used to lie—the blind, the lame, the paralyzed. One who was there had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, "Do you want to get well?"
"Sir," the invalid replied, "I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me."
Then Jesus said to him, "Get up! Pick up your mat and walk." At once the man was cured; he picked up his mat and walked.
John 5:2-9a

For your Maker is your husband— the Lord Almighty is his name— the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth.
Isaiah 54:5

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.
2 Corinthians 1:3-5

Resources

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Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker


Marriage within the Christian faith encompasses the whole person-body, spirit, and mind. Sex Chat for Christian Wives exists in that sometimes tricky, always sacred intersection. Hosted by Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor, this is a conversation among friends who believe that sexual intimacy is a profound gift meant to be explored and enjoyed within a covenant marriage. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk, where laughter and grace are always welcome. You’ll hear them draw from scripture to frame a positive, theology-based view of sex, while also diving into remarkably practical advice for everyday married life. The discussions are grounded, addressing real questions and challenges with honesty and without shame. This podcast moves beyond vague principles to offer tangible tips and perspectives that can transform a couple's intimate connection. It’s a unique space where faith, health, and sexuality are woven together, affirming that spiritual and physical intimacy are beautifully and intentionally linked. Tune in for thoughtful, compassionate dialogue that empowers wives to embrace this dimension of their relationship with freedom and joy.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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Duration: 22:44
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Duration: 2:11
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Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:55
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Duration: 2:01
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Duration: 24:47
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Self Touch (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:02
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Addressing Sexual Pain [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:07
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Euphemisms for Sex (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:12
J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.
Seasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young Wives [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:34
Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with…
Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:04
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