What Does God Have to Do with Our Sex Life?

What Does God Have to Do with Our Sex Life?

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor June 18, 2024 Duration: 22:44

For many Christians, it can be difficult to think about God and sex at the same time. How present is God in our bedrooms? And how does knowing that He knows make us feel? We dive deep into what God has to do with our sex lives and how to think about and embrace His involvement.

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From the Bible

So God created mankind in his own image,
    in the image of God he created them;
    male and female he created them.
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.
Genesis 1:27, 31

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17

I belong to my beloved,
    and his desire is for me.
Song of Songs 7:10

Resources

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Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker


Marriage within the Christian faith encompasses the whole person-body, spirit, and mind. Sex Chat for Christian Wives exists in that sometimes tricky, always sacred intersection. Hosted by Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor, this is a conversation among friends who believe that sexual intimacy is a profound gift meant to be explored and enjoyed within a covenant marriage. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk, where laughter and grace are always welcome. You’ll hear them draw from scripture to frame a positive, theology-based view of sex, while also diving into remarkably practical advice for everyday married life. The discussions are grounded, addressing real questions and challenges with honesty and without shame. This podcast moves beyond vague principles to offer tangible tips and perspectives that can transform a couple's intimate connection. It’s a unique space where faith, health, and sexuality are woven together, affirming that spiritual and physical intimacy are beautifully and intentionally linked. Tune in for thoughtful, compassionate dialogue that empowers wives to embrace this dimension of their relationship with freedom and joy.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Podcast Episodes
Talking About Sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:43
Should you talk to others about your sex life? When? Who? How? We have all hands on deck—Bonny, Chris & J—to tackle that subject. Sponsor Get matched to the right therapy for you with Better Help! And with our link, get…
Embodiment for Authenticity and Pleasure (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:04
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the importance of being connected to your own body and how it can lead to authenticity and pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and…
Making Peace with Your Body, with Jenn Schmidt [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:31
For many women, the body feels more like a battleground than a home. Jenn Schmidt of Intimate Covenant joins us to discuss how to make true peace with our bodies. Sponsor Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping co…
Role Play Moments [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:01
This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with some ideas on incorporating moments of role playing into your lovemaking. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Male Sexual Dysfunction, with Dr. Jaclyn Napier [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:01
Pelvic floor therapist Dr. Jaclyn Napier joins us to discuss male sexual dysfunction—what it is, how to address it, and what practices might prevent it for those not experiencing it yet. Sponsor / Special Request Regent…
4 More Ways Screen Sex Isn't Like Real Sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:23
This week's quickie is from J. Parker with four more differences between what you see on the screen and what happens in the sheets. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips abou…
Episode 263: How Stress Affects Sex (and Vice Versa) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:37
Stress can follow you into your marriage bed, shaping desire and connection. We unpack how it disrupts intimacy and what to do. Sponsor Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages fro…
4 Ways Screen Sex Isn't Like Real Sex (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:00
This week's quickie is from J Parker with four differences between what you see on the screen and what happens in the sheets. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex…
Savoring Your Lovemaking [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:47
What does sex that isn't mostly about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? Slide your chair up to our (bistro) table this week and let's discuss! Sponsor Every Love Intimates has a great D…
Quick Repair Restores Connection (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:40
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with a tip to restore emotional connection and strengthen sexual intimacy. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage…