Savoring Your Lovemaking

Savoring Your Lovemaking

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor April 9, 2026 Duration: 26:47

What does sex that isn't mostly about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? Slide your chair up to our (bistro) table this week and let's discuss!

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From the Bible

For your Maker is your husband—
    the Lord Almighty is his name—
the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
    he is called the God of all the earth.
Isaiah 54:5

I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. Hosea 2:19

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10 (ESV)

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 

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Marriage within the Christian faith encompasses the whole person-body, spirit, and mind. Sex Chat for Christian Wives exists in that sometimes tricky, always sacred intersection. Hosted by Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor, this is a conversation among friends who believe that sexual intimacy is a profound gift meant to be explored and enjoyed within a covenant marriage. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk, where laughter and grace are always welcome. You’ll hear them draw from scripture to frame a positive, theology-based view of sex, while also diving into remarkably practical advice for everyday married life. The discussions are grounded, addressing real questions and challenges with honesty and without shame. This podcast moves beyond vague principles to offer tangible tips and perspectives that can transform a couple's intimate connection. It’s a unique space where faith, health, and sexuality are woven together, affirming that spiritual and physical intimacy are beautifully and intentionally linked. Tune in for thoughtful, compassionate dialogue that empowers wives to embrace this dimension of their relationship with freedom and joy.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Podcast Episodes
When Life Intervenes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:14
We discuss health challenges, family activities, work, etc. that can disrupt sexual intimacy in your marriage and how to address it. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health profes…
Gratitude Softens Hearts (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:36
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how gratitude can soften our hearts and lead to improved sexual connection.. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Supporting Your Husband's Sexual Growth [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:07
Through the years, we've encouraged wives to grow in the area of sexual intimacy. But how can we support our husbands to mature in their understanding and experience? We discuss. Sponsor Everylove Intimates has a great D…
Does Size Matter? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:30
This week's quickie is from J Parker about penis size. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more ful…
What Actually Builds Sexual Confidence? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:13
We discuss what sexual confidence is, what influences it, and how to have the confidence God wants you to have in your marriage. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health profession…
Peace First, Pleasure Follows [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:53
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with ways to help your body feel peace in order to create space for pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marri…
The Messiness of Sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:24
We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess. Sponsors Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Networ…
Is Lingerie for You? (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:36
This week's quickie is from J. Parker on how to make wearing lingerie work for you (whether or not your husband cares). Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Quality Trumps Frequency (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:56
This week's quickie is from J Parker about quality vs. frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!