Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert

Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor March 26, 2026 Duration: 25:04

With special guest Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage, we tackle listener questions about erectile dysfunction, moving during sex, and feeling semiconscious after orgasm.

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From the Bible

I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1

I will conduct the affairs of my house
  with a blameless heart.
I will not look with approval
  on anything that is vile.
Psalm 103:2b–3a

You ask, "Why?" It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth. Malachi 2:14–15

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5

The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13

I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride.
I gather my myrrh with my spices.
I eat my honeycomb with my honey.
I drink my wine with my milk.
Eat, friends!
Drink, be intoxicated with love!
Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB)

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Duration: 31:01
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