Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert

Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor March 26, 2026 Duration: 25:04

With special guest Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage, we tackle listener questions about erectile dysfunction, moving during sex, and feeling semiconscious after orgasm.

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From the Bible

I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1

I will conduct the affairs of my house
  with a blameless heart.
I will not look with approval
  on anything that is vile.
Psalm 103:2b–3a

You ask, "Why?" It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth. Malachi 2:14–15

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5

The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13

I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride.
I gather my myrrh with my spices.
I eat my honeycomb with my honey.
I drink my wine with my milk.
Eat, friends!
Drink, be intoxicated with love!
Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB)

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Marriage within the Christian faith encompasses the whole person-body, spirit, and mind. Sex Chat for Christian Wives exists in that sometimes tricky, always sacred intersection. Hosted by Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor, this is a conversation among friends who believe that sexual intimacy is a profound gift meant to be explored and enjoyed within a covenant marriage. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk, where laughter and grace are always welcome. You’ll hear them draw from scripture to frame a positive, theology-based view of sex, while also diving into remarkably practical advice for everyday married life. The discussions are grounded, addressing real questions and challenges with honesty and without shame. This podcast moves beyond vague principles to offer tangible tips and perspectives that can transform a couple's intimate connection. It’s a unique space where faith, health, and sexuality are woven together, affirming that spiritual and physical intimacy are beautifully and intentionally linked. Tune in for thoughtful, compassionate dialogue that empowers wives to embrace this dimension of their relationship with freedom and joy.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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Podcast Episodes
When Life Intervenes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:14
We discuss health challenges, family activities, work, etc. that can disrupt sexual intimacy in your marriage and how to address it. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health profes…
Gratitude Softens Hearts (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:36
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how gratitude can soften our hearts and lead to improved sexual connection.. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Supporting Your Husband's Sexual Growth [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:07
Through the years, we've encouraged wives to grow in the area of sexual intimacy. But how can we support our husbands to mature in their understanding and experience? We discuss. Sponsor Everylove Intimates has a great D…
Does Size Matter? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:30
This week's quickie is from J Parker about penis size. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more ful…
What Actually Builds Sexual Confidence? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:13
We discuss what sexual confidence is, what influences it, and how to have the confidence God wants you to have in your marriage. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health profession…
Peace First, Pleasure Follows [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:53
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with ways to help your body feel peace in order to create space for pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marri…
The Messiness of Sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:24
We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess. Sponsors Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Networ…
Is Lingerie for You? (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:36
This week's quickie is from J. Parker on how to make wearing lingerie work for you (whether or not your husband cares). Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Quality Trumps Frequency (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:56
This week's quickie is from J Parker about quality vs. frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!