Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)

Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor November 13, 2025 Duration: 33:18

Today, we're tackling some tough listener questions. We're joined by Tara Buchanan, good friend and cohost of the Behind Our Smiles podcast.

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From the Bible

The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13

I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment. Song of Songs 8:10

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:17

And the Lord God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die." Genesis 2:16–17

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened....Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another....Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. Romans 1:21,24, 26–27

Resources

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Marriage within the Christian faith encompasses the whole person-body, spirit, and mind. Sex Chat for Christian Wives exists in that sometimes tricky, always sacred intersection. Hosted by Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor, this is a conversation among friends who believe that sexual intimacy is a profound gift meant to be explored and enjoyed within a covenant marriage. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk, where laughter and grace are always welcome. You’ll hear them draw from scripture to frame a positive, theology-based view of sex, while also diving into remarkably practical advice for everyday married life. The discussions are grounded, addressing real questions and challenges with honesty and without shame. This podcast moves beyond vague principles to offer tangible tips and perspectives that can transform a couple's intimate connection. It’s a unique space where faith, health, and sexuality are woven together, affirming that spiritual and physical intimacy are beautifully and intentionally linked. Tune in for thoughtful, compassionate dialogue that empowers wives to embrace this dimension of their relationship with freedom and joy.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Podcast Episodes
When Life Intervenes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:14
We discuss health challenges, family activities, work, etc. that can disrupt sexual intimacy in your marriage and how to address it. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health profes…
Gratitude Softens Hearts (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:36
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how gratitude can soften our hearts and lead to improved sexual connection.. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Supporting Your Husband's Sexual Growth [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:07
Through the years, we've encouraged wives to grow in the area of sexual intimacy. But how can we support our husbands to mature in their understanding and experience? We discuss. Sponsor Everylove Intimates has a great D…
Does Size Matter? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:30
This week's quickie is from J Parker about penis size. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more ful…
What Actually Builds Sexual Confidence? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:13
We discuss what sexual confidence is, what influences it, and how to have the confidence God wants you to have in your marriage. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health profession…
Peace First, Pleasure Follows [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:53
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with ways to help your body feel peace in order to create space for pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marri…
The Messiness of Sex [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:24
We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess. Sponsors Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Networ…
Is Lingerie for You? (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:36
This week's quickie is from J. Parker on how to make wearing lingerie work for you (whether or not your husband cares). Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in mar…
Quality Trumps Frequency (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:56
This week's quickie is from J Parker about quality vs. frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!