Prostate orgasms vs penile orgasms: what's the difference?

Prostate orgasms vs penile orgasms: what's the difference?

Author: Danielle Bezalel, MPH: Sex Educator | Pleasure Expert March 4, 2026 Duration: 15:21

Last week, we talked to Luna Matatas about seducing the butt -- but today, we'll go even deeper (wink wink) on the prostate! What is a prostate orgasm? How do you have one and/or give your partner(s) one? How is it different from a penile orgasm? Let's explore this fun part of the body and find even more pleasure!

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