SWM 097 – Location, bruises, God’s role vs my role, how to stop faking orgasms, where do I get my “garbage theology”

SWM 097 – Location, bruises, God’s role vs my role, how to stop faking orgasms, where do I get my “garbage theology”

Author: Jay Dee - Marriage Educator January 7, 2023 Duration: 19:04

September 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

  • Where are you?
  • How to hide bruises
  • What role do I have in God changing my heart?
  • Mother of 3 young kids isn't as interested in sex as husband
  • How to recover from faking orgasms?
  • Husband wants to be pursued
  • Where do you get your garbage theology?

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