SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

Author: Jay Dee - Marriage Educator March 9, 2024 Duration: 15:20

January and February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

  • The monthly masturbation challenge
  • How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her?
  • Periods and vacations and sex
  • Aging and orgasm struggles
  • How do I know if I’m in right?
  • Does fantasizing about my husband make it a shared experience?
  • Condoms for handjobs
  • Resources for newlywed virgins

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