172. Why Parents and Teens Keep Having the Same Arguments

172. Why Parents and Teens Keep Having the Same Arguments

Author: Therese Connolly July 3, 2025 Duration: 44:17

Are you a single parent stuck in the same exhausting conflict loop with your tween or teen? Do your arguments feel repetitive, emotional, and hard to solve—no matter how many times you talk it through?

You’re not alone—and there may be deeper reasons behind it than you think.

In this episode of Single Parenting Reset, Tess Connolly, LCSW, sits down with licensed mental health counselor and anxiety treatment specialist Justine Carino, host of Thoughts from the Couch. Together, they dive into the often-overlooked family roles that shape teen behavior and communication—especially within single-parent households.

You’ll learn how the dynamics from your family of origin may be showing up in your parenting style—and how your teen might be unconsciously taking on roles like the rebel, the golden child, or the peacemaker to keep emotional balance in the home.

This conversation will help you:

  1. Understand the deeper emotional patterns behind your teen’s behavior
  2. Recognize how your own upbringing influences your parenting
  3. Identify when your child is stuck in an unhealthy role—and how to shift it
  4. Let go of guilt and reset old family dynamics
  5. Improve communication, reduce behavior problems, and build a stronger connection

This episode is a must-listen for single parents navigating communication struggles, screen time issues, and behavior challenges with their tweens and teens.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how to stop repeating the same arguments and start parenting from a more grounded, intentional place.

🌐 Learn more about Justine Carino at www.carinocounseling.com

🎙️ Check out her podcast: Thoughts from the Couch

📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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