196. Tween Friendships: Why They Change and How Parents Can Help

196. Tween Friendships: Why They Change and How Parents Can Help

Author: Therese Connolly September 25, 2025 Duration: 39:07

Is your tween suddenly struggling with friendships—being left out, confused by shifting dynamics, or dealing with drama you don’t know how to fix? As a single parent, it can feel overwhelming to know how much to step in—and when to step back.

In this episode of The Single Parenting Reset Podcast (formerly The Parenting Reset Show), Tess Connolly, LCSW, sits down with friendship expert Jessica to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of tween and teen friendships. Together they explore how shifting social circles impact your child’s confidence, behavior, and communication—and what single parents can do to provide steady support at home.

You’ll discover:

  1. Jessica’s Friendship Pyramid—a simple tool tweens can use to identify safe, healthy connections.
  2. How to guide your tween through friendship shifts, social pain, and party exclusions without overreacting.
  3. Real-world strategies for helping your child build self-awareness, resilience, and better communication skills that strengthen relationships at home and with peers.

When friendships feel shaky, home becomes the anchor. By learning how to support—not rescue—your tween during these transitions, you can strengthen your parent-child connection and reduce conflict around other stressors like screen time and managing behavior. This episode gives you the tools to stay grounded while helping your tween handle the ups and downs of growing up.

🎧 Press play now to gain practical strategies for supporting your tween’s friendship journey—without losing your own balance as a single parent.

👉 If you’re a single parent of tweens and teens who wants more support around screen time, managing behavior, and improving communication, join Tess inside her community and coaching programs at Mindful Kids & Families.

You can purchase Jessica Speers book here - BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships

Friendship Pyramid - Friendship Pyramid.pdf

You can find out more about Jessica Speer here - www.JessicaSpeer.com

Jessica Speers first interview can be found here - The Parenting Reset Show: 71.Navigating Middle School Years on Apple Podcasts

📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
Podcast Episodes
216. 8 Discipline Mistakes Parents Make With Teens [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:33
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215. Entitled Teen Behavior: 5 Signs Parents Should Watch For [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:50
Ever feel like your teen expects VIP treatment 24/7 — instant rides, new phones, last-minute rescues — and flips out when you say no?You’re not alone. Many parents, especially single parents, are seeing more entitled beh…
211. Teen Vaping: What Parents Should Do When They Catch It [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 18:23
Is your teen insisting “it’s not a problem” even though you’ve seen air fresheners, eye drops, or sudden “new friends”…and you suspect vaping?In this episode, Tess and Gigi walk through what actually works when you think…
210. Arguments With Teens: How Single Parents Can Defuse Conflict [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 8:33
Ever feel like every conversation with your teen turns into an argument — and you're both left frustrated and unheard?You're not alone — but there's a smarter way to navigate these tense moments. In this episode, Tess Co…
209. Hidden Teen Vaping: Signs Parents Often Miss [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 8:37
Do you ever wonder if your teen might be vaping—but can’t tell if you’re just being paranoid?With vaping devices disguised as everyday objects and flavored cartridges designed to appeal to teens, it’s getting harder for…
208. Letting Teens Set Screen Time Limits: Does It Work? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:45
Is your teen glued to their phone — and every screen time rule you try only leads to arguments and frustration?If you’ve ever wondered whether giving your teenager more control over their own device use is risky or wise,…