196. Tween Friendships: Why They Change and How Parents Can Help

196. Tween Friendships: Why They Change and How Parents Can Help

Author: Therese Connolly September 25, 2025 Duration: 39:07

Is your tween suddenly struggling with friendships—being left out, confused by shifting dynamics, or dealing with drama you don’t know how to fix? As a single parent, it can feel overwhelming to know how much to step in—and when to step back.

In this episode of The Single Parenting Reset Podcast (formerly The Parenting Reset Show), Tess Connolly, LCSW, sits down with friendship expert Jessica to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of tween and teen friendships. Together they explore how shifting social circles impact your child’s confidence, behavior, and communication—and what single parents can do to provide steady support at home.

You’ll discover:

  1. Jessica’s Friendship Pyramid—a simple tool tweens can use to identify safe, healthy connections.
  2. How to guide your tween through friendship shifts, social pain, and party exclusions without overreacting.
  3. Real-world strategies for helping your child build self-awareness, resilience, and better communication skills that strengthen relationships at home and with peers.

When friendships feel shaky, home becomes the anchor. By learning how to support—not rescue—your tween during these transitions, you can strengthen your parent-child connection and reduce conflict around other stressors like screen time and managing behavior. This episode gives you the tools to stay grounded while helping your tween handle the ups and downs of growing up.

🎧 Press play now to gain practical strategies for supporting your tween’s friendship journey—without losing your own balance as a single parent.

👉 If you’re a single parent of tweens and teens who wants more support around screen time, managing behavior, and improving communication, join Tess inside her community and coaching programs at Mindful Kids & Families.

You can purchase Jessica Speers book here - BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships

Friendship Pyramid - Friendship Pyramid.pdf

You can find out more about Jessica Speer here - www.JessicaSpeer.com

Jessica Speers first interview can be found here - The Parenting Reset Show: 71.Navigating Middle School Years on Apple Podcasts

📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
Podcast Episodes
205. How Much Screen Time Should Kids and Teens Really Have? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:29
Do you ever wonder exactly how much screen time is too much for your tween or teen — and how to actually make limits stick without daily battles?As a single parent, it can feel impossible to manage phones, tablets, and g…
203. How to Reconnect With Your Teen Without Forcing Conversations [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:18
Do you feel like your - once close relationship with your teen is slipping away - and no matter what you try, the distance just grows.You're not alone. Especially for single parents of tweens and teens, the shift between…
202. Screen Time and Teen Anxiety: What Parents Need to Know [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:07
Is screen time quietly fueling your child’s anxiety — and what can you actually do to stop it?If you’ve noticed your tween or teen is more anxious, irritable, or withdrawn after being online, you’re not imagining it. Thi…
200. Screen Time Limits for Kids: Why They Don’t Work Alone [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:19
Are you constantly wondering if your tween is ready for social media—or worried about how much screen time is too much?If you’re a single parent trying to navigate your tween’s digital world, this episode breaks down the…
199. Parenting a Child With ADHD: Practical Strategies That Help [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:58
Are you a single parent trying to figure out whether your child’s struggles with focus, emotions, or school might be ADHD — and how to truly help them thrive?In this insightful episode, host Tess Connolly, LCSW, sits dow…
198. How to Set Boundaries With Tweens and Teens [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 20:33
Do you ever feel like setting boundaries with your teen just leads to endless conflict—or worse, silence?Parenting teens is tough because adolescence brings rapid changes in emotions, thinking, and independence. Many par…
197. Tween Mood Swings and Screen Time: What Parents Should Know [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 20:31
Is your middle schooler’s mood swings, tech obsession, or growing independence leaving you unsure how to parent them?The middle school years bring huge developmental changes—emotionally, socially, and cognitively. Many p…