204. Parent-Teen Conflict: How the Caregiver Capacity Map Helps Parents Stay Calm

204. Parent-Teen Conflict: How the Caregiver Capacity Map Helps Parents Stay Calm

Author: Therese Connolly October 24, 2025 Duration: 20:13

Are you feeling drained from constant power struggles, screen-time battles, and emotional blowups with your teen?

In this episode of The Single Parenting Reset Show, host Tess Connolly, LCSW, talks with therapist Katie K. May about the Caregiver Capacity Map—a breakthrough framework that helps single parents understand their own emotional limits and their teen’s unique sensitivities. If you’re exhausted from trying to “stay calm” while managing behavior, co-parenting, and keeping your teen off screens, this conversation will help you reset and reconnect.

  1. Discover how to recognize your emotional “capacity level” and refill it before frustration takes over.
  2. Learn simple validation techniques that instantly improve communication with your tween or teen.
  3. Find out how small mindset shifts can reduce screen-time conflicts and bring calm back into your home.

Tune in now to learn how to manage stress, respond with empathy, and strengthen communication with your teen—so your single-parent home feels calmer and more connected.

Find out more about Katie K. May and how to purchase her book 'You're on Fire, It's Fine' here 👉https://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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