210. Arguments With Teens: How Single Parents Can Defuse Conflict

210. Arguments With Teens: How Single Parents Can Defuse Conflict

Author: Therese Connolly November 13, 2025 Duration: 8:33

Ever feel like every conversation with your teen turns into an argument — and you're both left frustrated and unheard?

You're not alone — but there's a smarter way to navigate these tense moments. In this episode, Tess Connolly, LCSW and parent coach, shares a calm, connection-first approach to arguing with your teen that doesn’t end in slammed doors or shut-downs. If you’re tired of lecturing, yelling, or feeling like the “bad guy,” this episode offers a new path forward.

  1. Discover the best time and place to address conflict without triggering a blow-up.
  2. Learn how listening (not lecturing) can shift your teen’s defensiveness into openness.
  3. Find out how to use conflict as a tool to build trust, empathy, and emotional growth.

Press play now to learn five simple yet powerful strategies to handle arguments with your teen in a way that brings you closer instead of tearing you apart.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  1. Why conflict is normal (and healthy) for teens.
  2. How to choose the right time and place for difficult conversations.
  3. The power of listening over lecturing.
  4. How to focus on behavior without labeling your teen.
  5. Why apologizing strengthens your relationship, not your authority.
  6. How to repair and reset after an argument.

Conflict isn’t about control — it’s about communication. When you slow down, listen, and create safety, your teen learns emotional regulation, problem-solving, and respect. And that’s how single parents raise confident, connected young adults.

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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