218. 5 Parenting Mistakes With Rules, Curfews, and Screen Time

218. 5 Parenting Mistakes With Rules, Curfews, and Screen Time

Author: Therese Connolly December 11, 2025 Duration: 8:13

Feeling like the only parent trying to enforce rules while your co-parent plays it loose with curfews, screen time, or even vaping? The holidays make it worse — but there's a better way.

When co-parenting dynamics clash, especially during the high-stress holiday season, many single parents feel like they’re swimming upstream. If you're the one holding the line while your co-parent is more relaxed (or even oppositional), you're not alone — and you don’t have to parent from a place of frustration or fear. There’s a clear, calm, and research-backed way forward.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  1. How to stay emotionally steady even when the other house has completely different rules
  2. What to say to your tween/teen to keep connection strong without pulling them into the middle
  3. A holiday script that prevents arguments, avoids triangulation, and protects your child’s emotional health

Press play to discover how you can hold loving boundaries with calm confidence — and give your tween the emotional safety they truly need this holiday season.

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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