233. Why Gentle Parenting Backfires Without Firm Boundaries—What Single Parents Need for Real Connection

233. Why Gentle Parenting Backfires Without Firm Boundaries—What Single Parents Need for Real Connection

Author: Therese Connolly February 4, 2026 Duration: 13:24

Do you ever feel stuck between being the "too soft" parent who gets walked all over and the "mean" one who yells and regrets it later?

Many single parents find themselves swinging between two extremes—permissive parenting that lacks boundaries and authoritarian parenting that shuts kids down. But what if there was a third way that actually builds trust, improves screen time struggles, and keeps the peace?

  1. Why high empathy without structure increases anxiety and leads to screen-time battles
  2. Why strict rules without connection damage trust and cause kids to hide things from you
  3. How to step into “secure leadership” with real-life scripts that help you set firm, respectful boundaries this week

If you're ready to stop yelling and start leading with calm confidence, press play on this episode and learn how to become a secure leader in your home today.

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
Podcast Episodes
195.  How to Stop Arguing With Your Tween or Teen [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 18:27
Tired of daily battles with your tween or teen over screen time, chores, or attitude? Wondering why every conversation feels like a war zone?If you're a single parent caught in an endless loop of reactive parenting, powe…
194. 3 Ways to Reset Screen Time With Tweens and Teens [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:13
Feeling like back-to-school season has turned your home into a battlefield of screen time fights, homework resistance, and chaotic routines?If you're a single parent wondering how to recover from a summer full of power s…
193. Teen Refuses to Hand Over Their Phone? What Parents Can Do [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:54
As a single parent, one of the most stressful moments you can face is when your tween or teen flat-out refuses to give up their phone. Whether it’s bedtime, homework time, or a consequence you need to enforce—what do you…
192.  Teen Vaping or Drinking: What Parents Should Do First [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 10:36
Finding out your Tween or Teen is vaping marijuana, drinking or experimenting with substances can feel like a crisis. But what if this moment could bring you closer together.In this episode of The Single Parent Reset Sho…
190. After a Fight With Your Teen: Why Repair Matters [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:08
Are you a single parent stuck in endless battles over screen time, disrespect, or constant power struggles with your tween or teen?When you’re parenting alone, every conflict feels magnified—and without a co-parent to ba…
188. Should Parents Apologize to Their Teens? Why It Builds Trust [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 25:38
Do you ever feel like your teen’s anger, distance, or rejection means you’re failing as a parent?If you’ve ever wrestled with shame, pressure to be the “perfect” parent, or guilt about raising kids solo, you’re not alone…
187. 4 Ways Parents Can Reduce Screen Time Battles With Teens [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:34
Is screen time creating constant battles and distance in your home — especially as a single parent trying to hold it all together?In this episode of The Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, shares practical…
186. Teen Attitude Problems: What Parents Often Misunderstand [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:59
Is your teen constantly rolling their eyes, giving you attitude, or shutting you out — and you're not sure what it really means?If you're a single parent trying to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of raising tweens o…