252. How Much Screen Time Is Too Much for Kids? What Parents Need to Know

252. How Much Screen Time Is Too Much for Kids? What Parents Need to Know

Author: Therese Connolly April 9, 2026 Duration: 12:41

Your child may be spending more than half of their waking day on a screen — and you may not even realize it.

If you’ve been wondering how much screen time is actually okay for your tween or teen, this episode breaks it down in a simple, clear way. Tess walks you through what experts recommend, what the research says too much screen time can affect, and what a healthier daily rhythm can realistically look like for kids today.

In this episode, Tess explains the current screen time guidelines for kids and why they matter so much for tweens and teens. She breaks down the difference between school-related screen use and recreational screen time, and she gives real-life examples of what a lower-screen weekday can actually look like for a tween versus a teen.

She also covers what research shows about how too much screen time can impact sleep, mood, focus, physical health, and family connection.

If screen time is taking over after school, evenings feel like a battle, or you are not sure what a healthy limit even looks like anymore, this episode will help you feel more informed and more grounded.

You’ll walk away with:

  • simple screen time guidelines for tweens and teens
  • a clearer picture of what a healthy day should include besides screens
  • language that helps you think about screen time as part of a full life, not the center of it
  • encouragement that reducing screen time does not have to mean perfection or punishment

This episode is especially helpful for parents who want less chaos, more structure, and more connection at home.

Listen to Episode 252: How Much Screen Time Is Too Much for Kids? What Parents Need to Know

Then grab your free Tech Reset Agreement below to start creating clearer, more collaborative screen time boundaries with your tween or teen.

In this episode, Tess covers:

  • How much screen time for kids experts generally recommend
  • Screen time guidelines for tweens ages 9 to 12
  • Screen time guidelines for teens ages 13 to 17
  • What too much screen time can affect, including sleep, mood, focus, and connection
  • What a lower-screen day can realistically look like for a tween
  • What a lower-screen day can realistically look like for a teen
  • Why reducing recreational screen time can help reset things at home

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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