You ask your teenager to put down the phone, start their homework, walk the dog, or get ready to leave.
They do not respond.
You ask again.
And again.
Before long, you are yelling, your teen is defensive, and a basic request has become a full argument.
When teenagers appear to ignore their parents, the answer is not usually a longer explanation or a louder voice.
Your teen may not have shifted their attention toward you. They may be struggling to transition away from what they are doing. They may disagree with the request—or they may have learned that they do not need to respond until you have asked several times.
In this episode, Tess explains how parents can interrupt this pattern without becoming passive or controlling.
You will learn:
- Why your teen may not respond the first time
- How repeated reminders accidentally become part of the problem
- How to get your teenager’s attention before giving a direction
- Five practical scripts for common parent-teen conflicts
- How to validate feelings without changing the boundary
- What calm follow-through looks like
- When withdrawal or unresponsiveness may indicate a larger concern
The five scripts
- “Pause for a second. I need your attention.”
- “I’m not going to keep repeating this. I’ll come back in five minutes.”
- “You don’t have to like this, but I do need you to follow through.”
- “I’m going to stay calm, and we’re still going to handle this.”
- “We can talk about the feeling, but the expectation still stands.”
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