The Truth About Your "Golden Years" & The Power of Forgiveness (Part 3)

The Truth About Your "Golden Years" & The Power of Forgiveness (Part 3)

Author: Tara Simkins May 6, 2026 Duration: 31:06

🎙️ Welcome back to Part 3 of our series on Getting Older on the Soul-u-tions Podcast!

We are back with the third installment of our deep dive into the incredible wisdom of a 92-year-old retired high school guidance counselor. If you've been listening along, you know we are unpacking the realities of what the last 30 years of your life actually look like.

In this episode, we are tackling two incredibly profound lessons that are guaranteed to shift your perspective on how you are spending your days right now. We're talking about the reality of the "golden years" and the urgent, heavy-lifting work of true forgiveness.

In this episode, you'll discover:

  • Lesson #5: You have less time with your spouse than you think. We discuss why putting off your joy and travel for retirement is a risky game, and how unexpected health shifts can change your trajectory in an instant.
  • Lesson #6: Forgive everyone now. A heartbreaking story about a "Tuesday lunch group" that proves why holding onto grudges and avoiding uncomfortable conversations is never worth it.
  • Why you should never let your pride force you to "die on the cross of the principle of the matter."
  • How to stop expecting tomorrow to be guaranteed and start doing the hard work of mending fences today.

👇 Join the Conversation! Is there someone in your life you need to forgive, or a conversation you've been putting off? Take a deep breath and let this episode be your encouragement to take that first step today!

If this episode resonated with you, please hit the like button, forward it to a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss the final lessons in this series!

🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:

  • Free Masterclass Tool: Get my simple, 3-step tool to help you shift your perspective and tackle any challenge. Just head over to TaraSimkins.com and join the email list to grab it!
  • Inspiration for this series: Check out the amazing stories and interviews at the Old vs. Young YouTube channel!



Tara Simkins hosts Soul-u-tions, a space where practical spirituality meets the messy reality of daily life. Having left a high-pressure career as a corporate lawyer for some of America's biggest firms, Tara brings a unique perspective to problem-solving. A profound family incident shifted her path toward life coaching, and she now focuses on how we often approach our challenges from angles that only deepen stress and a sense of being stuck. Each episode feels like a thoughtful conversation, exploring mindful frameworks and creative shifts in perception that can lead to healthier outcomes. This isn't about quick fixes, but rather cultivating a resilient inner foundation. You'll hear Tara's grounded guidance, drawn from both her professional transition and personal journey, offering tangible ways to reframe difficulties. The Soul-u-tions podcast operates within the realms of religion and spirituality, yet remains deeply accessible, emphasizing actionable insight over abstract theory. It’s for anyone feeling overwhelmed, seeking to replace hopelessness with a more empowered and thoughtful way forward. Tune in for a genuine dialogue that honors life's complexities while pointing toward sustainable peace and clarity.
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