S1.50 - How to Reconstruct Your Faith After Deconstruction

S1.50 - How to Reconstruct Your Faith After Deconstruction

Author: Laura Farhy May 17, 2026 Duration: 6:46
After a decade of a deconstruction, I finally rebuilt my faith and this is what I did to do it. The best part is... my faith is more secure than it was before. I want to do the same for you. 

In a landscape where many feel spiritually uprooted, Spiritually Homesteading | How to Lose Your Religion & Keep Your Jesus offers a different path. Hosted by Laura Farhy, this podcast moves beyond the familiar terrain of deconstruction to focus on the practical, often messy work of rebuilding a personal faith. It’s built on the metaphor of homesteading-the idea that a deep, sustainable spiritual life requires getting your hands dirty, planting seeds of curiosity, and tending to your own beliefs with intention. This space is specifically for those who feel disillusioned or wounded by institutional religion yet still feel a pull toward the essence of Jesus. Each episode is a conversation for the spiritually curious and hopeful, exploring how to separate cultural dogma from core spiritual truth. When you listen to this podcast, you’ll find honest discussions about navigating doubt, reclaiming personal agency in faith, and discovering what it means to cultivate a belief system that is genuinely your own. It’s about empowerment and ownership, creating a spiritual home from the ground up.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Spiritually Homesteading | How to Lose Your Religion & Keep Your Jesus
Podcast Episodes
S2.06 - Religious Trauma Is Real: What Harvard Says About Healing [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:48
Back in April, I had the privilege of sitting in on a Religious Trauma Symposium hosted at Harvard Divinity School. Chaplains. Professors. Survivors. Researchers. All in the same room, talking about something that most c…
S2.05 - Colonialism and Christianity: The History Your Church Skipped [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:38
What if you didn't walk away from God — you walked away from empire? This episode asks the question that deconstruction often misses: who handed you your faith, and why? Full description ↓ Colonialism didn't just steal l…
S2.04 - Why Every Christian Needs to Learn to Disciple Themselves [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:38
How many years have you been going to church and are you actually different? It's the question nobody wants to answer honestly. Because the truth is, a lot of us have been showing up, sitting down, receiving, going home,…
S2.03 - Is Jealousy a Sign From God? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 20:00
The church told you jealousy is a sin to be confessed and buried. But what if it's actually one of the most honest prayers you'll ever pray? Jealousy doesn't lie. It tells you exactly what you want, and exactly what you…
S1.52 - After Deconstruction, Only 3 Things Remained [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:56
After years of deconstructing my faith, I stopped asking what I should add and started asking what I could let go of. What I was left with was simple: Jesus, the Holy Spirit, and the Bible as a tool — not a rulebook, not…
S1.51 - Why You Should Write Your Own Bible (No, Really!) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:27
Your Story With God Deserves to Be Written Down... so let's record it and make it count. We often forget that God exists outside the Bible and inside your life. LET's talk about that.
S1.49 - Should You Quit the Bible? Here's Why I Changed My Mind [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:17
There maybe a season in your journey where you aren't sure if you can trust the Bible anymore...or if you should ever read it again. I have been in this place and it is both frustrating and scary. Frustrating because eve…