How to be Great at Worrying

How to be Great at Worrying

Author: Startups.com May 25, 2026 Duration: 35:55

Ever wake up at 3:00 AM convinced your startup is about to break? The conversation unpacks how founders can’t really “leave work,” and how constant vigilance can turn into fear dressed up as responsibility—endless rumination that produces stress, not decisions. Will shares decades of 3:00 AM worry cycles, the superstition that anxiety prevents disaster, and how even vacations get hijacked by disaster simulations (including getting hacked on the way to Comic-Con). They draw a line between real thinking that creates options and looping that creates suffering, then discuss practical replacements: box breathing to fall back asleep, gratitude to reset perspective, and self-talk that puts the “experienced founder” back in charge. The goal isn’t to stop worrying, but to channel that energy into small, solvable actions instead of spirals.

What to listen for:
00:41 Learning to Worry
01:21 Walk the Lot Mindset
03:28 Fear as Responsibility
05:07 Paranoia and 3AM Ceilings
06:25 Anxiety Superstition Loop
08:18 Vacation Disaster Mode
10:21 Thinking vs Rumination
13:10 Breathwork Replacement
14:14 Milestones Won't Fix It
15:53 Experience Adds Knives
18:47 Fear Makes It Worse
19:39 Worry As Energy
21:24 Productive Distractions
22:29 Finish Small Tasks
23:39 Save It For Morning
27:17 Worry Versus Solving
31:13 One Pebble At A Time
34:59 Make Worry A Superpower

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