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Suzanne Noble joins me for a raw, funny, direct conversation about dating, sex, kink and honesty after 50. You hear what dating looks like in the UK versus the US, why so many men think they are going to be the one to “fix” your orgasm, how porn shapes expectations, how women think about body image as we age, and why younger partners are on the rise. Suzanne breaks down the UK’s kink culture, why dominatrixes are fully booked, and how to explore safely. We also talk about jealousy, non-traditional relationships, safety on dating apps, catfishing, and why so many of us refuse to shave our pubic hair for a man. This episode is candid, smart, and packed with insights about midlife dating and sexual confidence.
Timestamps:
In this episode:
00:00 Holiday masterclass offer
00:35 Welcome intro and episode setup
01:18 Are Brits more open about sex
02:22 The UK’s kink history and boarding school culture
03:58 How early life stages shape sexual dynamics
05:20 BDSM clubs and the UK Femdom scene
06:35 Why kink is built around control, not intercourse
07:40 Are Brits really more open than Americans
08:32 Dating men who listen to the podcast
09:48 Younger men and orgasm expectations
10:42 Why people hide their curiosity about sex
11:30 Porn influence, squirting, and sexual performance myths
12:45 The rise of sexual repression in America
13:40 Dating younger partners and why it appeals to women
14:55 Midlife relationships, jealousy, and complexity
16:05 Opening relationships and personal boundaries
16:58 How to stay safe while dating after 50
18:10 Spotting catfish and bot profiles
19:22 When a profile is too good to be true
20:15 Shifting into body image and aging
21:00 Feeling confident naked as you age
21:48 When men do not match their claimed fitness
22:25 Grooming norms. Pubic hair expectations in the UK
23:05 Saying no to grooming requests you do not want
23:42 Early experiences with kink
24:30 Why experience matters for safety in kink
25:10 Learning impact play in community spaces
25:35 Closing thoughts
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Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
About the Guest:
Suzanne Noble is the Co-founder of Startup School for Seniors, co-host of Sex Advice for Seniors, and jazz & blues pro singer.
Connect with Suzanne Noble:
Website: https://suzannenoble.co.uk/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexadviceforseniors
Substack: https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com
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Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.
