The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Author: Robyn Gobbel Language: English Episodes: 100
Robyn Gobbel, an internationally recognized expert in children's mental health, hosts The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}. This podcast serves as a compassionate guide for parents raising children whose nervous systems are vulnerable due to past trauma, toxic stress, neuroimmune disorders, or sensory processing differences. Each episode is dedicated to decoding the confusing and often overwhelming behaviors that can leave caregivers feeling isolated and unsure. Robyn translates complex neuroscience and attachment theory into practical, relatable insights, moving beyond simple behavioral tips to address the root causes of family stress. You'll find a sense of community and understanding here, a place where the struggle is acknowledged without judgment. The conversations in this podcast offer more than strategies; they provide a framework for building safety and connection, helping to shift your perspective from "what's wrong with my child" to "what happened to my child." It’s a resource for anyone exhausted by conventional advice that hasn't worked, emphasizing that you are not alone on this journey. Through stories, expert interviews, and Robyn's own grounded wisdom, the podcast fosters resilience and hope, empowering you to create a family life grounded in co-regulation and mutual understanding.
Episodes
EP 230: Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:54
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) isn’t about being overly sensitive. It’s about a nervous system that experiences rejection as danger. In this episode, I explore RSD through the lens of relational neuroscience, atta…
EP 229: NeuroRelational Healing with Guest Sara Sherman [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:49
Healing comes in all forms, including on farms, with horses, and of course, in relationship. My guest this week, Sara Sherman, is a graduate of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s Professional Immersion Program an…
{REPLAY} The Privilege of Parenting This Way (with safety) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:28
{Replay of Episode 169 from March 2024} Parenting with co-regulating and seeing below our kids behaviors is actually a privilege we rarely talk about. It’s always a privilege, but especially when we consider different ma…
EP 227: Nothing Works! Are you burned out on tools? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:33
Part of why you keep listening to this podcast is for parenting tools and strategies, right?? So, what do we do when it feels like nothing is working?! What’s really going on when parenting tools feel useless and you wan…
EP 226: The Power of Delight in Parenting Kids with BBBs [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:30
I know- sometimes it feels impossible to feel delight toward your child. I get it! BUT! If you can find even micro-moments of delight, it can be very powerful for both you and your child. In this episode, you'll learn: H…
EP 225: How to Stay Curious When Behavior Makes No Sense [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:33
When your child’s behavior leaves you feeling confused, frustrated, or even hopeless, staying curious might be the last thing on your mind. But curiosity is actually SO COOL! It’s both a parenting strategy AND a nervous…
EP 224: Is Behavior Change the Goal? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:57
When you're dealing with whining, hitting, defiance, back talk…well, of course you want it to stop. But what if behavior change isn’t actually the place to start? Not for long-term behavior change, at least. In this epis…
EP 223: What a Trigger REALLY Is [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:35
Have you ever freaked out at your child and then later thought, “Where did that come from?” Yup, that’s being triggered! In this episode, we’ll unpack the neuroscience behind why we get triggered, what memory processing…
Ep. 222: Lying, Stealing, Regression & Baby Talk [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:51
Why do kids sometimes - or a lot of the time! - suddenly act much younger…or sneakier?! In this episode, we use Dr. Bruce Perry’s concept of state-dependent functioning to reframe some of the baffling behaviors as signs…